Monday, July 1, 2013

Not a porn site

It seems obvious, but perhaps not to some people. I've been getting much more traffic here of late (thanks tumblr) but I do wonder what some people expect when they visit.

Well, just in case, for new visitors - there is no porn here: No pictures, no videos, and no links to where you'll find any. There's already plenty of that to be found for free already out there.

Whilst we're on the subject I'll give you my views on porn. It's probably the first, last and only time I'll mention it.

I'm pretty liberal minded and not the least offended by pornography. And what other women (or men) choose to do with there bodies in a very public way for hard (and presumably much needed) cash is entirely up to them. I know my husband likes to look at it and is predictably furtive and guilty (though needlessly) about the whole affair. No one should feel bad or ashamed about their little pleasures, is my thinking, as that leads to self-loathing and psychological damage.

But moving on, I find the way it's usually presented and performed hilarious and absurd. Granted, I'm not the target audience, but really, is it meant to be taken that seriously? The world of pornography appears to exist within its own little bubble, almost completely disengaged from the norms of human behaviour, sexual or otherwise.

I was going to say more, but I'm already bored with the subject.

Have a nice day :-)

6 comments:

  1. Im not sure its entirely disconnected... when me and my boy watched a few videos, it made me want to do more anal play, some of the videos are very creative ;) Gave me some ideas! Are you not occasionally inpired?

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  2. No, I'm not inspired. Perhaps my husband is. I just can't relate to the guys who don't actually look like they are enjoying themselves or the female performers with silly baby-doll voices or gritted-teeth full on porn mode. It has me in stitches every time. That's no reason for you not to enjoy it, but it is mine. But that really is my final word on the subject.

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    1. We try to watch the more realistic ones where the woman is enjoying herself. Try french porn or french actresses, they seem to have cinema and real acting in their blood! Chloe de Lysses for eg, if you find some of her movies... gotta look pretty hard tho, most are like you say :(

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  3. She has a point. Some is great fun to watch but realistic it ain't. Pure theatre. I'll still watch it though :P

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  4. There is so many different porns. To me it is good to know in everything humans can invent what is exciting you the most.

    Thanks to porn, I know what I like most :
    - Anal
    - Cum swallowing
    - Facesitting
    - Bisexual women
    etc...
    I don't like most things I can see in most porns : Facial cumshots, vaginal sex, submissive womens, fellatio.

    I don't think I would be so clear with what I like and what I don't like if I would not have since those "movies".

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    1. Hey there, I'm with you on most of that but mostly the facial cumshots. Or anywhere else on the body. Why can't there be more porn where they cum inside?? Vaginal sex - also massive turn off. But that's getting easier to avoid as so many movies are anal only now. I disagree about submissive women - that can be a turn on. As long as they aren't hurt. Not into pain or humilation or anything like that.

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