I know it's been some time since I managed to post a real update. Both my husband and myself have been busy with our respective jobs. Whilst mine is irregular and variable in its demands, his is normally quite steady and predictable. But once in a while we both find ourselves in demand at the same time, like the last few weeks.
We'd been like ships passing in the night, but thankfully it is over for the time being. We didn't even get to have sex around two weeks, which is virtually unheard of. Well, every cloud has a silver lining, as they say...
The result was when we did go to bed together we were both charged up with sexual energy. If you've had a long break before you'll know what I'm talking about. That tension becomes pent up and when you finally have a chance to release it it can alter the whole experience. Senses seem enhanced, each others body seems like new territory again. Smells, touch, sight; everything more vivid. The result of is you have one of those sexual encounters you remember forever (well until the next memorable one).
You may think it was over in a rush, but you'd be wrong. For some reason, though excited were both took our time. I think it was post work exhaustion and relief that we actually had some time of our own, and for once together again that made us want to savor it.
Much of it was actually oral: me on him, him licking delicately at my anus before probing deeper. It is one of his favorite activities and he would have gone on much longer than he did, but I was starting to squirm and really needed him inside. So, it was onto my side and legs up while he lubed me up. He penetrated slowly but felt very thick, though everything is exactly the same.
It is often the mind, playing with our perception which makes all the difference - Deciding if something hurts or not; whether it is intimate or not; and often the trigger for climax. Not in the right mood? Then good sex can be a problem. Though there are a few circumstances where it has occasionally turned things around, such as a post argument 'make up fuck'.
But I digress. After penetration it was just slow and steady. Boring I guess unless you happen to be one of the participants. At the end there wasn't even that much movement as he was all the way in and just kind of 'rocking' against my ass. This was another time I got frustratingly close to orgasm but not quite, so just a minute of finger work and I was there. He afterwards said he wanted to go on but my repeated clenching up put an end to that! He's not interested if we get to orgasm together but I really enjoy it when it happens.
So there you have it. I apologize again for not keeping up with stuff here but as I'm sure you all appreciate it isn't always for lack of interest or will. Partly my mistake for promising regular updates. Perhaps just a little unrealistic but the best of intentions.
Until next time.
J.
