I love to hear how other women (and men!) feel about the subjects I raise in my blog. Please feel free to post any comments, questions or thoughts you have.
It would be great to know if my experiences touch others, or even if your experience is entirely different. Hopefully together we can get a better picture of how women really feel about the last taboo (and just maybe go a little way towards breaking it down).
So don't be shy!
Well I've just been directed to this blog and a few other similar ones. I haven't had time yet to read it all yet. For the record, I ceased having vaginal sex around 3 years ago. It wasn't a concious withdrawal per se, but a practical step to avoid pregnancy at the time and just sort of carried on. My boyfriend sound exactly like your husband so we have that much in common, so I think it would prove difficult to persuade him to go back to normal sex in any case as he's grown so used to anal now! I've never completely worked it out but they do seem to regard the vagina as second-best. I do remind him how lucky he is and lay down the rules and so on so in the main it's worked out well. Take care.
ReplyDeleteBut do you prefer it? Do you miss vaginal at all?
DeleteDo I prefer it? I'm not sure as it's been such a long time. I like what it does for him and I certainly don't dislike it. But its very different and you can't compare one to the other. I get strong orgasms where I always struggled with vaginal plus the whole thing goes to my head. I probably do it for the same reasons Jenny does. So no, not missing the actual penetration of the vagina as such because I get lots of other stimulation, direct and indirect that gives me what I need. Perhaps if I was with someone who wasn't so into it I would reconsider, who knows...
DeleteDo you stimulate yourself up front at all during it, or when masterbating, or are you entirely anal now?
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