Weekend surprise

He does sometimes surprise, my man of habit. And more often than usual recently. I must find out if there's something on his mind.

This time, after a very long massage for yours truly, he wanted me to remain in position face down on the bed. Now there's one we hadn't done in a long time. Basically, it's an inverse missionary where you lie on your front with your legs spread and he lies on top.

Now, this is not a position for very deep penetration, though it does help if you put a pillow or something under your hips to raise them a little. It is also not one where you have much (if any) opportunity to play with yourself in the front. I wouldn't want to be doing this all the time, but it has advantages; it forces him to be slow and gentle and I really enjoy the feel and weight of his body along along my back. The only problem was that as he rolled off to fall asleep I was just starting to get excited but instead was having to make a visit to the bathroom :(

Back to the usual

After a brief flirtation with a new position we are back to an old favorite: spoons. I'm happy with a little variety now and again, and once in a while he gets it into his head that the latest position is the best. Sooner or later he always wants to return to one of the two familiar ones. But there is something comforting about that, and what it lacks in novelty actually more than makes up for in closeness, for me at least. He holds me tight, I'm relaxed and we make love gently. It may not always scale the heights of passion but late at night when you're both that tired it's such a nice way to end the day before the lights go out.

Busy Busy Busy

A hectic work schedule and other commitments have sadly meant I haven't had as much times as I'd wished to spend on this blog.

But fear not!

I hope to post in greater length soon, but until then this is how things stand:

We've now had a few weeks without any vaginal sex. So far a great success; I'm not missing it, he's not missing it (no surprise there). In a way it has been strangely liberating. Now that there isn't any misunderstanding or differing expectations, both in tune as it were, our sex life has already improved markedly.

I don't know how long this "honeymoon" will last but my husband is definitely being more romantic, attentive and loving than before. Now he knows what's on the menu he's more relaxed and spending the time on me to make sure I'm satisfied.

Till next time...